The root of all needs and expectations is an unfulfilled spiritual desire. Satisfy your spiritual desires through the practice of meditation and you’ll be able to interact successfully with anyone. No longer needy, you will enter into relationships simply to share and enjoy. There’ll be no strings attached in the way you give of yourself; your love will be unconditional.
Remember you have human needs no doubt, and you also have needs as a human being, when you discover this and the need to balance then you will awaken.